Freedom Strike
Rabu, Maret 10th, 2010|
IMDB rating: 3.30 Plot: National security is in jeopardy when terrorists seize an Iraqi nuclear reactor and threaten to attack American soil. Spearheaded by ace Tomcat pilots, the U.S. launches a surgical strike in a hell-for-leather effort to stop the assault. |
Actors: Dudikoff Michael,Loc Tone,Anthony Jay,Coster Nicolas,Karen James,Fairman Michael,Roman Frank,Harper Ron,Holland Sean,Van Patten James,Monroe Bill Langlois,Putch John,Kadi Nicholas,Drama,Action,
What would you think if your fiance put this online?
"I want to go somewhere….walk a bout across Australia, or a maybe climb through the mountains in Central America, or Italy. I mean that’s all there really is in life on earth (Travel, Love). You have your Friends and family, some job they hate (for most LOL), See the world, what’s the point if you stay in one area, o…ne job, and one boring life forever, live for your kids, maybe I’m selfish and want to live for me."
Would you think they weren’t ready to be married and would rather be alone? I wrote a question last night about this but my fiance ever since his mother passed called off the wedding. He always wanted a long engagement. He proposed december, 24th 2008 and he wanted to get married in 2011. His mother wanted us to get married in 2009 and I compromised with 2010. After his mom passed he postponed the wedding and now our date that was set is canceled and I have to wait for him to find himself. It just really hurts me because my dream of marrying him and sharing my life with him got taken away. I feel as though he took it away from me. He doesn’t like to talk about the wedding, and stuff. Whenever I mention it he’s like "we’ll talk about it when we get there". He’s trying to be a pro golfer and he’s almost there he said "when i make the tour we’ll get married". I have no idea how long that is..I just don’t want to be wasting my time. I was there for him beyond belief when his mom died, and never asked for anything from him. It just really hurts me because I use to be excited about it and now I feel as though I’m not allowed to be and I cry about it. I feel like he doesn’t give a shit about it anymore. His mom has been gone about a year now..and he’s still in that angry place. I don’t know what to do or how to deal with it..I got some helpful answers last night anyone else have some good answers? I just want him to pick a date but he is so freedom struck that I just don’t understand why he proposed to me then? What should I do? How can I get him to just relax and pick a date..it’s not that hard! How do i get him to get back excited about talking about it? I mean I’m not even excited anymore because it just hurts to think about it…what do I do?
he’s 32 also and I’m 22. I don’t think his mother would have wanted him to call off the wedding..unless that’s why he was marrying me..
He definitely doesn’t sound ready to settle down. Let him go and be by himself. Perhaps he will find what he is missing. Regardless, if he doesn’t want to get married, don’t push it. If you do talk him into it he’ll probably resent you after the wedding. Sorry.
Katie M | Jan 31, 2010
You are trying too hard. You wrote "I feel as though he took it away from me". Not everything is about you. Maybe he was marrying you to please his mother. Now that she is gone, he has no motivation to do so. You are young; other men will come along. This guy is losing, or have already lost interest in you. I don’t see a wedding with this guy in your future.
Sarah | Jan 31, 2010
You should tell him that your feelings are just as important as his. Tell him that you aren’t going to wait forever. Make sure he knows that you love him and just talk to him. Tell him what you feel. Good luck with everything
Kate | Jan 31, 2010
Why are you putting up with this BS. if he were into you, then the date would have been set already and you would be living your life as a married couple and not people that are living under the shadow of your guy friends dead mother.
Time to get off the pot and move on.
wildwillyinva | Jan 31, 2010
i think u guys should take a break. he clearly isnt ready to settle down and maybe needs time to get over his mother passing away. i know u tried to be there for him, but hes only hurting you. maybe after he’s had some space, he will realize how much he needs you.
blp | Jan 31, 2010
I lost my Mom in June 2008. I’m still messed up about it. I can understand how he have wanted to change the plans after she passed. Getting married with your Mom only there in spirit is just awful. However, It does not sound like he still wants to get married at all. It doesn’t seem fair to you. Seems like you are torturing yourself. There’s that saying if you love it let it go, if it comes back then the love is meant to be (or something like that). Right now the vibe you’re sending out is a desperate one and that in a twisted way may be stroking his ego, and influence him to keep you holding on even tho me may already know he no longer wants marriage. I can only imagine how hard it is to let go if you really had your heart set on being with him. You are young and need to open up to the possibility that marrying him may not be good for your future. You also don’t want to force him if he doesn’t want it anymore, that will only lead to problems. I wish you well and hope however it works out for you that you can be at peace with it. Take Care
SKCS | Jan 31, 2010
If my fiance wrote that I would ask him to re-examine what he wants in life before he makes a lifetime commitment to me. I wouldn’t want to be married to him a year and then have him say "hey I guess I didn’t want to get married after all", because that would be more devastating than him cancelling the wedding. Just ask him, tell him you don’t have to get married if he doesn’t want to (say this in a nice way). I think he doesn’t want to get married and is doing it because he feels obligated to do so. Do you really want to marry someone who feels being with you is an obligation? You have a life changing decision to make, whatever you decide will affect the rest of you life, think carefully you’re only 22
I mean you aren’t even married yet and he’s already talking about how boring married life and having kids is and wanting to travel and live a fast paced exciting life. Be careful but I get the feeling you might regret marrying him, he doesn’t even want to talk about marriage, this should be an exciting subject for you, you’re engaged and in love (are you in love?) surely you should be happy! But no you’re not. You can’t just get him to "relax and pick a date", its not that easy (he has to want and know beyond all doubt that he truly wants to spend his whole life with you) and you don’t want him accusing you of pressuring him into marriage later, causing you more unhappiness.
Re-examine your reasons for getting married you’re too young to screw your life up.
Mia kay | Jan 31, 2010
You will never regain your youth , men are attracted to the young in a woman , change horses before you loose your youth . this horse is headstrong and very much going to hert you as life unfolds this is only the beginning , To prove this ask him to do something he would never want to do tonight , ( hang a picture over the bed ) for example , if you get hert over this little exersise in any way , you know I’m right . take the saddle off and start looking to see if you can attract a kinder sort . there is no such thing as a perfect relationship . but headstrong will keep you always wishing . and devorce will happen in two years youll be twenty four , and you’ll be unhappy , seems that you are already not happy , what more did you need out of that marriage . thats all that has been offered , and you’ve excepted it , commendable , but give the right horse your exceptance , and pleasure will be magnified . If however he hangs the picture while teasing you about the stupid little thing and when he’s threw you say it’s crooked and he dissagrees with you and gives you a slight smile . snag him, he’s worth it . but don’t get your hopes up , he’ll fail it’s almost in the bank . I hope I’m wrong .
darkcloud | Jan 31, 2010
I think then , my fiance would only care about the pennies he would have known were worth working for. I would like to know if just maybe he could shuffle down the hall with me and enjoy the steel strong friendship long before we get married.That’s whats important anyway .Maybe a trip to Minnesota would help him see how cold he has become!
lilly l | Jan 31, 2010